OK... In the older version of Word they had a feature where you could see the breaks and headers and footers. Does 13 have that? If it does I haven't found it. I'm new to 2013, the last Word I used was 01 or 03.

Charles Kenyons post above (#5) provided a link to display non-printing formatting marks (spacing, page breaks, et al). Here it is again: Showing non-printing formatting marks in Microsoft Word. You should be able to "see" the headers/footers, but if you are trying to "access" them simply double-click in the header/footer area of the page.