Your attitude is unfortunate, and (I obviously do not know for sure) perhaps indicates you did not read the link that explains WHY cross-posting is frowned upon. You mention respect, and that is indeed the point. No one has mentioned at all that you should not post in other forums. Just tell us about it. THAT is showing us respect. The point being is that if you do not show respect, you will likely not get it.

All this is explained in the link.

They are entwined together.

BTW: how much did you google this; because if you do there are many items that have this subject...with answers.