http://www.word-tips.com/dotx-and-dotm.html
Sue's Word Tips saved the day!
I found this online after some digging....
She talks about how to create, change, and use templates. I just used her "change" directions and went in and changed the Normal template which had somehow ended up as a .dotm and reset the information, then saved the new version. As long as I create documents using that it seems to so far be functioning okay.
She has awesome info on that website for anyone else in a panic.
Thanks Neil for trying to help.