May I also draw your attention to the fact that the regular XL forum members ( which are usually the most experienced) hate spending their free time for nothing. This community being rather small they communicate regularly with each other. Heavy cross-posters are thus well known and after the admin's patience has grown thin, posters can be banned (on different forums), making it difficult for them to find (free) help.
Finally it all boils down to that : you get free help, so please respect the people giving it

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