I have installed Office 2010 on a new home computer; previously had 2007. I prefer to automatically receive email when I open Outlook, but I want messages I create to stay in the Outbox folder until I manually send them. I had this set up in 2007, and 2003 before that, but am having trouble understanding the set-up options in 2010.

From help files and web searches, it seems that I can only allow both send and receive automatically, so that anything that may be in my Outbox folder gets sent if I automatically receive. I think -- and certainly hope -- I am missing something here. Can someone assist, please?