For a single location:
{IF{FILLIN "Gender" \* Caps}= "F*" "she" "he"}
or, if you're outputting the result in multiple locations:
{SET BkMk {IF{FILLIN "Gender" \* Caps}= "F*" "she" "he"}}
then:
{REF BkMk}
wherever you need the output.

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Paul Edstein
[Fmr MS MVP - Word]