The article that Jim gave you is THE word on numbered headings.
If you set up these following the directions there, your
Table of Contents (not
Index) will work the way you want. A TOC appears (usually at the beginning of a document) and is arranged sequentially by page number. An Index usually appears at the end of a document and is arranged alphabetically by topic showing page numbers. This is the regular usage in American English and Word jargon.