It is not on the view tab. It is in the Word options for display.
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The following link appears to work fine (and is more comprehensive and authoritative than is my page). I had forgotten that I even wrote that page.
http://wordfaqs.mvps.org/whitespace.htm
This is a toggle control. In at least one version of Word, it was toggled by a single errant mouse click. These days it takes a double-click. Otherwise, it can be found in the Word options.
It is my guess that this is your problem. If I am mistaken, please write back.